Lately I have been seeking knowledge from the bible and I stumbled on key scriptures that substantiated the mind of God about relationships and marriage. Our relationship adventure is getting really interesting.
Firstly, the number one need of a man is not a woman, nor is it sex, but the presence of God! This is made clear with the fact that God first provided man with his presence – depicted by the Garden of Eden. So, Ladies, make sure you endeavor to meet a man in the presence of God, and not in the bush! Secondly, a man must work. God didn’t first give the woman work; he gave man work. Thirdly, and the most interesting, God will never give a man a finished work. He created man to create the woman he wants.
The Church is Jesus’ bride and in Ephesians 5:25-26, we see that Jesus washes her with His Word in order to present her to himself, without spot and blemish. Paul was actually writing to the Ephesian men to do likewise. ‘So, ladies, keep chanting to your man, “Cultivate me!”
If your wife is putting on weight and you don’t like it, don’t criticize her, wake her up at 6 o’clock and go jogging with her. You don’t like her dress, buy her a new one. She can’t speak good English, send her to school and pay for her tuition!’ God gave you man a stronger body mass, not to abuse the woman, but to protect the woman.
The Woman in Your Head Doesn’t Exist! Use the raw material you have to create what you want!
God commanded Adam not to touch the tree, he never told the woman about the tree. Adam’s job was to teach his wife the word of God. These days, however, the woman knows more word than the man. When a woman asks you, “what do you think?” Never answer, “What do you think?” Give the answer! Have a plan guys!
Finally, ladies, If you meet a man who:
- Can’t protect you;
- Doesn’t know God’s word;
- Doesn’t have anything doing;
- Doesn’t make effort to cultivate you.
Then my fine dears, it is good for that man to be alone!
